LEAD Story 437

Originally published in The Gateway Issue No. 16 (August 2009)

Ireland is divided into four provinces namely, Munster, Leinster, Connaught and Ulster. The province of Ulster, in the north, is special in the sense that six of its nine counties are under British jurisdiction. Brother Meldan was born in County Monaghan, one of the three counties in the Republic of Ireland. He remained a staunch Ulster man and Monaghan man all his life.

He was born on the 5th January 1915 in the well-kept, picturesque village of Emyvale, the sixth in a family of seven, six boys and one girl. He was called James Myles at baptism. His mother died when he was three and his father when he was eleven, leaving the eldest brother, Johnny, then twenty-six, to look after the family.

The young James did well at school and he had high regard for his teachers. Nationalist feelings ran high at the time and James was happy to join a local band which played Irish traditional music. He played the flute and it became a constant companion throughout his life.

One day his school had a visit from the McKenna brothers, three of whom were De La Salle Brothers. They opened up the prospect of a career as a teaching Brother. James felt inspired to volunteer and he left home in August 1930 to join the Brothers’ formation school in Castletown, County Laois. He had little interest in games preferring instead to delve into history, politics and mathematics as well as playing the flute at concerts.

On the 13th June 1931, he entered the Novitiate for a year’s training in the spiritual way of life at the end of which he took his first vows, received the religious name of Meldan and then left for Kilmacow for further studies with a view to admission to Teacher Training College.

Suddenly the even tenor of life was broken with the visit of Brother Marcian Cullen who made an urgent appeal for volunteers for the missions. Brother Meldan was one of those who volunteered and was accepted. At the age of eighteen he, together with other missionary volunteers, was on his way to Paris and then Marseilles. He wrote to his family back home: “We had a lovely time in France and were treated very kindly by the Brothers everywhere we went”. He was not to see his family again for another thirteen years. The group boarded a ship on the 24th May 1933. After a long, hot, steamy passage the ship eventually docked at Penang on the 26th June. A few days later Brother Meldan was assigned to Burma and arrived in Rangoon on the 11th July.

In Burma he was first assigned to St Patrick’s High School, Moulmein and he was to do two terms there. Like all young Brothers, Meldan from the first moment was in love with Burma and its people, the land of pagodas and saffron-robed monks. At first all went well but shortly the dreaded TB virus struck and, after medical checks, he was sent to St Peter’s High School, Mandalay. Here the climate was much more conducive, and together with the help of a dozen raw eggs daily, prescribed by the doctor, he gradually shook off the virus. He himself was convinced that it was playing the flute that cured him, as this entailed a lot of deep breathing. He loved the city of Mandalay, with its rich history, and was happy with his teaching duties. The brush with TB, however, made him very conscious of his health and the threat of TB would always be with him.

In 1937 Japan invaded China and in moving westwards Burma felt threatened. Brother Visitor felt that the young Brothers in Burma were at risk. In 1940 Meldan was transferred to Malaysia. He did not like leaving Burma and was not long teaching in his new environment in St Xavier’s Penang when he was found to be suffering again from TB. He had to leave class and was confined to a secluded room for six months.

The Japanese invasion of Malaysia began on the 8th December 1941 and in late November 1942 Meldan moved to St Paul’s Seremban. The school had reopened as a Japanese technical school and Meldan joined the other Brothers in learning Japanese. A competence in the language meant an increase in salary beyond the pitiful living allowance of $80.00 a month. In January 1944 a Japanese headmaster took over and non-Asians were removed from the staff. Five Brothers, including Meldan, had little choice but to join the Singapore Brothers in the jungle settlement at Bahau, some thirty miles away. This would be Meldan’s “home” for the next 20 months.

And what a home it proved to be. Life was tough and food scarce and residents were cut off from news of the outside world. Brother Meldan joined the workforce, growing tobacco, peanuts and pumpkins as well as doing some cooking. But the soil was giving out and there was a poor return for their labour.  Worst of all, a virulent strain of the dreaded malaria struck. 

Brother Philip O’Callaghan wrote: “Every single Brother was laid low with malaria except Meldan. In spite of the tropical heat and hard work he always wore football socks into which he tucked his trousers. Similarly his arms were wrapped in old stockings and he wore a baraclava type covering on his head. Mosquitoes could never penetrate such defences”. As an added precaution he smoked whatever was available, from cigarettes to Indian cheroots. Two Brothers, however, close friends of Brother Meldan, succumbed to the disease and died. They had contracted cerebral malaria. Their deaths greatly upset all the Brothers and Brother Meldan would often recall those tragic events.

When the war ended he was recalled to his Community in Seremban where normal schooling was resumed as quickly as possible. He was allowed a much-appreciated home visit in 1947, his first since 1933, and then he proceeded to University College Dublin where he took an Honours BA in History and Political Theory, his favourite subjects. Following a holiday home he was happy to be on his way once again to Singapore, arriving there in December 1950.

He was given a Pre-University class at the well-known St Joseph’s Institution and was assigned to teach Economics, General Paper and Geography. He taught his charges thoroughly and well. He helped order a whole new arts library, one of the best in Singapore. He was also asked and agreed to teach English in the Teachers’ Training College and did so with much success.

After two years in Singapore Brother Meldan was transferred to St Michael’s Institution, Ipoh. The school was about to open a new sixth form and Brother Meldan was the man for the job. Here he laid the foundations for an excellent tradition. In Ipoh he also found time to indulge one of his favourite hobbies, walking, especially along the banks of the Kinta river which flowed by the school.

Meldan’s call to St Joseph’s College, Hong Kong, took place in 1956 and, apart from a brief interlude in Sabah, he was to stay there for almost thirty years. Again he set about organizing the Form 6 Arts Stream, which was then only in its infancy. This involved a lot of hard work and he was teaching subjects like Economics, Geography, History and Literature practically on his own, an almost impossible workload. After two or three years he opted to teach in the lower forms and made Form 3 in particular his stamping ground.

Meldan was terrific in school. Every lesson was prepared assiduously. Everything was thoroughly researched and written up before entering any class. He insisted on full attention and the students took their cue. Indeed, on his way to class, he could be heard intoning ”In the name of the Father…” before he even reached the door. This was probably to ensure quiet before his actual arrival. He detested bullies. Once he told us how he picked out one such, ‘the biggest fellow sitting at the back of the class,’ and had him on his knees crying for mercy! While the students had a healthy respect for his insistence on discipline, they thrived in the learning atmosphere he created and, not infrequently, succeeded in bringing out his human and humorous side.

For recreation he indulged in his great hobby, walking and collecting orchids along the streams of the Hong Kong and Kowloon hills. He knew the correct botanical name for each one. On occasions he would take a camera to photograph an exotic find. His faithful companion on these hikes was Brother Patricius O’Donovan who had also borne the burden of the heat and the day in the jungle at Bahau.

Throughout much of his life Brother Meldan was plagued with sickness of one kind or another. He would often refer to himself as “a sick man”. He had more or less weathered the TB storm and malaria. But now two new monsters raised their ugly heads in the forms of pernicious anaemia, an enervating ailment, and insomnia, which, he admitted, almost drove him mad. In 1967, a short stint in hot and humid Sabah did not help matters. He returned to Hong Kong in November of the same year, looking as white as a sheet. This was followed by hospitalization, the opening of a hole in his throat, medication and injections for nerves and anaemia.

Sometimes his sickness complaints had a humorous side. There was the occasion of a visit by a priest. When the priest shook his hand and remarked: “Hello Meldan, your hands are lovely and warm”! Back came the response: “They’re warm on the outside but cold inside”!

In retirement he was not at all idle. He kept himself busy checking District records and updating information on the lives of deceased Brothers associated with the District of Penang. He read a lot and gathered a goodly collection of books and Lasallian heritage materials in his room. The Brothers regarded him as their Hong Kong Lasallian archivist.

Although he visited Ireland and home a few times, it was not until June 1985 that he eventually decided to settle into the Holy Family Community in Castletown. Here he improved a lot and enjoyed many years of reasonably good health. One of his Directors at the time, Brother Albert Tierney, had this to say: “Meldan was a great conversationalist, great raconteur. He had an encyclopedic memory for Northern Ireland. Truly he loved his native land”. He was able to visit his family about once a year. He would also recall stories of his youthful days in Burma, the place where he made his final profession in 1938. 

Although keeping reasonably well health-wise, a serious attack of shingles at Easter 1993 greatly weakened him and he admitted it shook him to his foundations. He began to decline after that and by 1995 was confined to a wheelchair and paralysed from the waist down. Brother Patrick Tierney writes: “I visited him twice just before his death. The first visit, about a week before the end, was sad because he was in and out of awareness. But at least he recognized me and spoke a little about Hong Kong. At the second visit a few days before the end, he was unaware of his surroundings.”

He passed away on the 16th August 1995 at Miguel House, Castletown. Brother James Dooley gave the homily and spoke of “a man who deeply loved his family and friends and country, a man of great loyalty to his Institute, and with a deep love of God and his Blessed Mother”. The funeral was large, attended by the Brothers, relatives and a huge contingent of neighbours.

Brother Philip O’Callaghan, an old friend of Meldan, paid tribute to him in a poem entitled ‘Remembering Meldan’:

Death did smile - an incongruous thing!
Yet death did smile!
For here was a soul crossing the Styx
With wealth aplenty and more the while
Leaving behind a legacy - a matrix
Of memories in kindly words, concerns, fidelities – a profile
Insuring death hath lost its sting –
E’en more – more to pay the crossing toll
And jump the queue at heaven’s gate.
For he hath brought through earthly fires – gold
Purified by suffering kindled – prayer intense;
Myrrhed humility – an approaching state
To Godhead, imaged in human experience.

Others had this to say:

“In his best teaching days few equalled him for excellence and perfection in detail; everything was thoroughly researched and written up before entering any class. He always insisted on full attention from the students and in the interests of their survival they soon learned to co-operate”.

“He was very close to nature and adored flowers. His life was a continuous celebration of God’s gifts and he asked during his final illness that there be no crying or mourning at his death, rather merriment and celebration.”
 

Originally published in The Gateway Issue No. 15 (June 2009)

When we look at a photograph of a youthful Brother Felix, we may note how tall he is, as well as his shock of beautiful, curly hair. In some photos we may also detect a twinkle in his eye, and that would be telling.

He was born in County Tipperary, Ireland, and given the baptismal name Denis. During his childhood the family moved to Bruff, County Limerick, and it was here he went to school and grew up. The school was run by the De La Salle Brothers. He was the only boy in a family of six and he remained very attached to his family. From an early age he displayed that lovely mix of good humour and seriousness that stayed with him all his life. Oh yes, he could be serious, but he never took himself too seriously. And that trait carried him far.

The Brothers who taught him at school had a great influence on him and he preferred their way of life to that of the priesthood. Shortly after Christmas 1930 he decided to head for the Brothers’ Novitiate in Castletown. The Novitiate at the time was a year of tough spiritual formation. He “survived”, took the Brothers’ Habit on the 1st February 1931, and received the name Brother Felix Lawrence.

A sense of youthful adventure must have been in his bones because soon after the Novitiate, at the age of twenty, he volunteered for the missions in the Far East. His first teaching missionary experience was in Malaysia, first in Taiping and then in Penang, from 1932 to 1936. Teaching all day in the tropical heat was no joke but Felix made the best of it. During school holidays the Brothers would assemble on Penang Hill and Brother Felix was in his element. For recreation he introduced sing-song sessions. He had a good singing voice and a wide repertoire of attractive Irish songs.

Just as he was acclimatizing to the Malaysian setting he was transferred to Hong Kong which was to be the scene of most of his labours for the rest of his life. He arrived at St Joseph’s College on the 8th December 1936 and taught at Matriculation level until war broke out. One of the students at the time was Henry Pang who later became a Brother. He recalls:
“Young Brothers were in the majority and there was enough of them to make two noisy football or basketball teams.” He remembered “their hearty laughter and cheerful way of life” and says this is what first attracted him to the Brothers. Although Brother Felix was not regarded as a sporty type, he was in fact teacher in charge of the College football team at the time, and a good team it was too.

But happy days were soon to end as the dark clouds of war were gathering. The bombs rained down on the 8th December 1941 and by Christmas the Japanese military was in control. They commandeered many schools, including St Joseph’s and La Salle. St Joseph’s, among other things, was used as a military store. Brother Felix and some other Brothers were kindly given refuge for a time by the Jesuit Fathers in Robinson Road.

The Brothers came to the decision that while a few would remain in Hong Kong, the remainder would move to neutral territory where they might also be able to exercise their teaching skills. One migrating group was led by Brother Aimar while Brother Felix and Brother Michael Curtin went together. In January 1942 they decided to head for China via Macau and set sail for Kwong Chao Wan on an extremely crowded ship. Kwong Chao Wan (a French colony from 1898-1943) was often used as a stopover on an escape route for civilians fleeing Hong Kong and trying to make their way to Free China. There the Brothers soon ran out of money and gladly accepted the offer by a friendly Norwegian ship’s captain of free passage to Haiphong, a port on the Gulf of Tonkin in North Vietnam, where they were warmly received by the Vietnamese and French Brothers.

We think Brother Felix might not have been too homesick in Vietnam because he soon met some of his old Hong Kong confreres such as Brothers Honorius, Basilian and Wilfrid. They were working in the large Lasallian school in Taberd, Saigon. Without delay Felix got down to the study of French and reached the enviable standard of being allowed to read the Lives of the Saints in the dining room. But the main work assigned to Felix and his English-speaking companions was to teach the English language to the young Vietnamese Brothers and to the students. There was one potentially dark spot on the horizon for Brother Felix. He was admitted to Saigon hospital for a stomach operation and his stomach never forgot it. It was later discovered that he already had an operation for appendix in the 30’s in Penang. 

The end of war in 1945 brought blessings to many. Brother Felix had not been home to see his family for fourteen years. In 1946 he managed to get on a ship for England and thence to Ireland. He was malaria-ridden, undernourished and pestered with that niggling stomach ailment. His superiors allowed him a good rest at home followed by a degree course at University College Dublin, where he graduated majoring with a B.A. in History.

1949 saw him returning East, doing a short stint in Kuching, East Malaysia, before returning to Hong Kong where he felt most at home. He taught first in St Joseph’s College from 1950 to 1955. One of the students at the time remembers how he always whistled when he walked and had a spring in his step. He brooked no nonsense in class, however. After his term in St Joseph’s he was asked to go to Rome for the second Novitiate. This does not mean that there was a problem with his making of the “first” Novitiate! Rather, it was a sign that the Superiors were preparing him for greater responsibility. Sure enough, soon after his return in 1956, he was assigned as Director of La Salle College, Kowloon, in succession to Brother Patrick Toner.

As the new Director, Brother Felix moved fast. The school at this time was “in exile” in “temporary” wooden huts erected by the British Army. Brother Felix did not let this deter him. He was an energetic headmaster and kept teachers and students on their toes with frequent class visits and checking of exercise books. He introduced a number of changes during his tenure including the wearing of a mandatory student uniform, the establishment of a new prefect system and student council and the giving of spiritual talks during assemblies. Nevertheless, it was his battle with the British Army to secure the release of the original La Salle College building that marked him out. It took years of negotiations, delicate and not so delicate at times, with the matter being brought up regularly in the House of Commons, before Brother Felix could at last take possession of the old school. For this achievement, some people salute the courage, stamina and fighting spirit of the Irishman in him. When he got the bit between his teeth he would not let go too easily.

On the 1st August 1959, the Army finally derequisitioned the building after a ten-year occupation. The official handover took place on the 21st August. What a sight met the eyes of the Brothers! After ten years of military occupation the grand buildings and grounds were in a shambles. Undeterred, Brother Felix set about the rehabilitation work. For a whole year a firm called Hsin Hang did some restoration and a great deal of patchwork. It was all they could do. It was somewhat akin to cosmetic surgery and the building never fully recaptured its pristine beauty and grandeur. The school playfield gave the most trouble. Solidly built concrete Nissen huts had to be pulled down and cement foundations removed. But school morale was high under Brother Felix and spiritual, academic, sporting, musical and scouting activities kept ticking over nicely. Staff and students were simply glad to be “home”.

Brother Felix himself had an interesting “take” on the growth of extra-curricular activities, especially since some thought they hindered academic progress. In his Speech Day address of 1963 he had this to say:
“No wonder a despairing teacher intent on getting his class through the syllabus of studies, opined that the device on our school crest, ‘Fides et Opera’, should be translated ‘fiddles and operas’. Yet all this hubbub not only prevents Jack from becoming a dull boy but gives scope to that initiative, sociability and qualities of leadership that distinguish the La Salle boy”.

Mention of Speech Day calls to mind an interesting episode. Students have an uncanny knack of being able to “read” their headmasters and teachers. It was the custom on Speech Days for the Head Boy or Prefect to request the Guest of Honour for a school holiday. The Guest would invariably look to the Principal for a nod of approval. On one memorable occasion, the Head Boy had the extraordinarily creative idea of asking for two holidays! The Guest looked at Brother Felix who, though flabbergasted, had the graciousness to consent. That Head Boy had certainly “read” his headmaster.

One outstanding trait of Brother Felix was his sympathy for the poor, the needy, the handicapped and all those in straitened circumstances. And so it was that he granted no-cost school quarters to the janitors and no-interest loans to needy teachers. Brother Paul Sun, Superior General of the Disciples of the Sacred Heart, also benefited from Felix’s determination to encourage others. He helped and supported Brother Sun in the setting up of St Joseph’s Anglo-Chinese Primary School in 1958 and later, in 1968, of the St Joseph’s Secondary School. Brother Felix sent Brother Anthony Knoll there to teach and to act as adviser and supervisor for three years until the school was on a firm footing.

Another big venture of Brother Felix in his efforts to help the disadvantaged was the successful opening of a new school in the New Territories, close to the China border. This was De La Salle Secondary School, Fanling, which opened its doors in 1965 for boys who would otherwise have little chance of receiving a quality education. The pioneer Community consisted of Brothers Felix, Paul O’Connell, Hubert Pilz and Pius Kelly. Now Brother Felix was by no means a linguist. However, he was determined to learn Chinese or at least enough to give a speech at the opening of the new school. Brother Henry Pang coached him to perfection. The great day came. Brother Felix started the speech all right, and then, amidst rising expectations, stalled. There was a long silence. Felix then had the presence of mind to bow graciously and sit down to loud applause. When asked later what had happened, he said he had had a total black out! 

Brother Felix ran a good, happy school in Fanling. One old boy often recalls how Brother Felix “saved” him as he had been quite naughty. One day Felix had approached him and told him in no uncertain terms how he would end up if he did not mend his ways. That was the turning point for the boy. After completing two terms as Director of De La Salle Secondary, Felix returned to La Salle College and humbly taught as directed until his retirement in 1981. But he was not yet content to hang up his boots and, at the request of an old boy, offered his services at the Hang Seng College of Commerce. He enjoyed teaching there and helping out with the Debating Society until December 1984.

During all this time and despite indifferent health, Brother Felix never lost that twinkle in his eye or the joy of playing a good practical joke. Brother Patrick Tierney recalls visiting La Salle from St Joseph’s College. Suddenly he heard someone singing a beautiful Irish song. On turning, there was Brother Felix approaching, apparently in good voice, a bit too good he felt. Sure enough, Brother Felix was found to be carrying a small cassette player behind his back!

The old stomach complaint was surfacing more and more. However, Brother Felix was not finished yet. In December 1984 he volunteered to go to help the Vietnamese refugees at the Brothers’ Centre in Oxford. He was surely remembering the war years when he too was a refugee and had been welcomed and given shelter and work in Vietnam. But his health now deteriorated rapidly. Early in the Summer of 1985 he was diagnosed with stomach cancer. He received the news with resignation. The Brothers in England gave him unstinted care until he decided to return to the Brothers’ nursing home in Ireland, called Miguel House. This was in December 1986.

For the last six months of his life he suffered much pain. Pain-killers brought temporary relief. His morale was boosted by the number of visitors, letters, cards, telegrams and flowers he received from all over the world, but especially from Hong Kong. Two of his sisters kept vigil at his bedside. One of them, Sister Joseph Marie, writes: 
“I will never forget the care and kindness shown to Felix in Castletown. The constant attention of the nursing sisters to his every need and the devoted care of Brother Pius McCarthy is something we will never forget.
As we said the Rosary, we could see Felix saying the Hail Mary’s with us. He looked around at everyone, as if to thank us, then quietly went to God”.

Brother Henry Pang writes a lovely epitaph for Brother Felix. He recalled the words of Father James Lea, one time Chaplain of La Salle College, who used to occupy a room at the main entrance of the old College. Father Lea said that “very often, people looking for Brother Felix would come up to knock and when he came to the door they would ask him if he were Brother Felix. He would answer simply, ‘I am not. I live down here. But Brother Felix is upstairs’. Brother Henry Pang adds: “If I had to write the epitaph of Brother Felix today, I would simply say, ‘BRO FELIX IS NOT HERE. HE IS UPSTAIRS’.

De La Salle Santiago Zobel hosted the bi-annual DLSP Basic Education Commission Forum from 12-14 March 2025, bringing together school principals and academic heads for three days of collaboration and inspiration.
 
Day 1: Inspiration, Connection, and Service
The forum kicked off with inspiring presentations, including a Grade 4 student's innovative use of "Minecraft" in a project. Participants also engaged in meaningful conversations with the women and children of The Haven - National Center for Women, fostering a deeper understanding of service. The day concluded with a shared meal, symbolizing communion and shared hope for the future of Lasallian education.
 
Days 2 & 3: Strategic Discussions and Lasallian Spirit
The subsequent days were dedicated to important business meetings and strategic planning among the De La Salle Philippines schools. Br. Bernard Oca FSC, Brother President of DLSU-Manila, DLS Araneta, DLS Santiago Zobel, and DLS Bataan, delivered a keynote address emphasizing the crucial role of Lasallian Partners in the success of their mission.

Reflecting the core of Lasallian tradition, the gathering began and ended with prayer at Santuario De La Salle. Br. Bernie's powerful message resonated deeply: "The flourishing of the Lasallian Mission is owed to our teachers, staff, students, and the entire school community – our Lasallian Partners." This spirit of collaboration and "association" will guide their collective efforts in navigating the evolving educational landscape.
 

Last 21 March 2025, Kinder students from De La Salle Lipa, DLSU-Integrated School, De La Salle Zobel, La Salle College Antipolo, and La Salle Green Hills engaged in a fun-filled competition for this year’s Little Archer’s Olympics at DLSU-Laguna Campus. This one-day sports event provided a platform for these budding talents to showcase their developing skills and competitive spirit. It also served as a valuable opportunity to learn and embody the true meaning of sportsmanship, fostering camaraderie and mutual respect amongst the young Lasallians.

We are deeply grateful to DLSU-Integrated School's organizing committee and dedicated volunteers, who were key to the event's success. Furthermore, we acknowledge the unwavering support of our Lasallian partners, including parents, teachers, and staff from the participating schools, whose encouragement and belief in our Little Archers played a crucial role in bringing this vision to life and creating a positive and encouraging environment for all involved.